Is there really a relationship with an "outside"? I feel that the last thing the "ego" likes to grab to survive is this idea that there is something "outside there"...It may create expectations and then make us miss the point. We never go out of our selves. Since I started to understand this, I never have any expectation about working on relationships. By doing this I feel that one become like the eye of the cyclone the inner world movements affect the whole. Relationships also. Some disappear and some get fixed naturally. There is no meaning in trying to apply an idea to our world with a belief of harmony. My experience shows me that there is no good or bad relationship, just a naturally harmonious combination of energies falling in place...and it's wordless...Namaste!