Oyinade, you are touching a real point everybody is facing...Tell or not tell...? Taking dualistic positions is not the right way to succeed...Life is not dualistic...For me, by talking about my projects is a way to practice a kind of active visualisation...When I explain my vision to somebody, I get more and more in the details and my project gets more coherent...The nuance is about talking to whom? Also about who is talking in me.?..(Is it my "ego" or my "self"...) and about why talking? Which means i need to evaluate if my "story telling" is oriented to growth or just to getting approval...Cheers. Patrice.